A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away ... there was a couple. Who were simply just dating. Who were without children. Who dared to have serious conversations, uninterrupted, while enjoying a meal that dared to be warm at the time of consumption. Who slept - on a whim - for ten uninterrupted hours at night. Who spontaneously ... did things without having to book a babysitter three months in advance. Who ... went out to brunch on Sunday mornings and ordered Bloody Mary's instead of firing up the minivan to go to soccer practice, then to wiffle ball, then to swim lessons, then to a birthday party, etc. Who debated about whether to eat dinner at Rainbow Dragon or Farragut House, instead of whose night it was to make pasta again and pack lunch boxes.
Then the couple got married. And had kids. The end.
(dramatic pause)
However, there is that once a year opportunity for THE WIFE and I to turn back the clock. You know that trip I'm talking about. The re-connector. The "just the two of us" getaway. The "oh yeah, this is why we love each other" weekend. The two or three days when you ditch the kids with grandparents and possibly come home with a new addition to the family, assuming you were procrastinating on that vasectomy. This much coveted, temporary, time travel away from reality is also know as ... the Weekender.
THE WIFE and I have our annual sojourn coming up soon. And it got me thinking. I need to prepare accordingly.
There are some classic do's and don'ts I follow when getting ready for a Weekender. Here is a sample of the refresher course I read to myself in the mirror during the countdown to escape...
In the days leading up to a Weekender, it's important to maintain health at all costs. Specifically, in the week before the trip, boost up the immune system. DO take Vitamin C supplements and echinacea. DO drink plenty of fluids. DO get some extra rest. In other words, DO wear a hazmat suit, if possible, when interacting with your kids and especially when conducting any pick up or drop off at day care or schools. Then disinfect said child(ren) thoroughly upon returning home. If outright quarantine is possible, by all means take advantage.
[I unfortunately learned this lesson the hard way shortly after arriving at the Chatham Bars Inn a few years ago. A 24-hour stomach bug struck me just as we got settled into our hotel room. All I remember from that weekend is watching Inception on demand while wrapped beneath a comforter as THE WIFE ordered room service. Good times!]
DO avoid engaging in athletic or outdoor activities that you do not typically perform. Sustaining a lower back injury during a first time cross-fit workout or pulling a groin during bikram yoga can severely impede late night - or God willing maybe even afternoon - activities.
DO make a little extra effort in your appearance for the weekend away. Wax that back or nair the shoulder hair. Manscaping is a good way to show your lady that she's not married to Wolverine.
DO NOT consume foods that cause chronic flatulence. The rest of the year may be filled with unrestrained, spontaneous gas triggering dirty looks or wide eyed facial expressions, but the Weekender calls for impromptu morning cuddle sessions that DO NOT include Dutch ovens.
DO limit conversation about the kids and child rearing during meals to ensure that there are other topics about which the two of you may focus. For example, one's favorite Yo Gabba Gabba episode or whether Tilly is ready to sleep without a pacifier, are discussion pieces to be avoided. Instead, focus on fun topics like "did you read anything interesting in Us Weekly today when we sat by the pool?" Or perhaps, "Should we have red wine tonight or bubbles? Or both?" Then reminisce about the wine we drank during our honeymoon as we stared out towards the caldera.
DO NOT get jealous when THE WIFE begins to speak about how talented Adam Levine and Justin Timberlake are. Although the seemingly innocuous statement is easily misunderstood code for "I would definitely swap you out for said performer and seven seconds of heaven," you must recognize that the observation could also mean "I want you to dance with me if we hear one of their songs when we go to a bar later this evening."
I would write more but I can't because one child is swinging from light fixtures and the other two are entangled in WWE techniques. Get here soon Weekender.
Friday, May 15, 2015
Friday, May 1, 2015
Back in Black
I could bore you with reasons why there's been such a gap in any posts, but there's too much good stuff to catch up on.
"M Is For Metal" has become Gus' recent book obsession. We temporarily lost the book a few weeks ago. Gus noticed. He started asking for the book when THE WIFE and I would ask the kids what they wanted to read before bed. Or at breakfast before school. (Yes, the kids like to have a quick read during their Cheerios or Puffs or Chex or whatnot.)
Finally, the book resurfaced. And now all three kids can virtually recite the book word for word.
"M Is For Metal" is a cute but also fairly edgy ABC book that pays homage to some of the classic hard rockers of years past. The book describes itself as "The loudest alphabet book on Earth."
Like most books of its kind, the outline follows a simple formula. In alphabetical order, a short blurb takes inspiration from the respective letter in order while applying the musical genre's them. For example, "O is for Ozzy who cleans up dog-doo. He rests on the Sabbath and other days too." The illustration depicts the former MTV reality show star clad in tatoos and slippers ironing, while surrounded by flying bats and a dog who, well, has clearly left a deposit near Ozzy's feet." It's cute, I swear.
After a hundred reads or so, THE WIFE and I have taken a few liberties and added our own spins to various entries. The kids have incorporated our creative additions and included them in their own unique ways. Mostly, the humor is lost on them. And the subjects of each entry are totally lost on them.
So, this morning as we proceeded through our ritual of breaking fasts, I decided to provide a little video perspective to help better explain the musical innuendo. The results were amazingly entertaining. The following is a loose transcript of the experiment.
"Q is for Queen, who were fruity as mango. Scaramouche, scaramouche, can you do the fandango." The accompanying illustration shows the band in their classic silhouette diamond pose from the Bohemian Rhapsody video but with different fruit on their heads. And naturally, THE WIFE and I rarely resist singing the next few words in the song.
Me: There's Freddie Mercury. He's one of the best singers ever.
Tilly: (confused) Are they boys? Or are they girls?
Me: They're boys.
Greta: Why do they have hair like girls then?
Me: Well, that was kind of the style back then.
Tilly: (not giving up) Are they girls?
Me: They're boys, Tilly. You see-
Gus: STOP IT! READ THE NEXT PAGE, DADDY!
"W is for Windmill, that Pete likes to do. But just who is Pete? Who-who, who-who?" Pete stands in his text book pose windmilling next to the blurb. There is also "D is for Drums..." and Keith Moon is drumming wildly for the adjacent image but the percussion - inexplicably - is not exploding.
Me: Check out this clip of Pete doing the windmill and rocking out.
Greta: Why is he smashing the guitar?
Tilly: That's so silly, Daddy.
Me: I know Tills. That's why he's so cool.
Tilly: I want to smash a guitar! Can I smash a guitar?
Gus: STOP IT! READ THE NEXT PAGE, DADDY!
"K is for Kiss, with make-up that runs. Gene is the one with the longest of tongues."
WIFE: Look guys, this band always performed with the crazy make-up on their faces.
Greta: Are they boys? Or are they girls?
Tilly: Make-up is silly. Why do you wear spicy lip stick Daddy?
Me: It's chap stick, Tills. Burt's bees.
Tilly: Yeah, but it's spicy.
Gus: STOP IT! READ THE NEXT PAGE, DADDY!
"M Is For Metal" has become Gus' recent book obsession. We temporarily lost the book a few weeks ago. Gus noticed. He started asking for the book when THE WIFE and I would ask the kids what they wanted to read before bed. Or at breakfast before school. (Yes, the kids like to have a quick read during their Cheerios or Puffs or Chex or whatnot.)
Finally, the book resurfaced. And now all three kids can virtually recite the book word for word.
"M Is For Metal" is a cute but also fairly edgy ABC book that pays homage to some of the classic hard rockers of years past. The book describes itself as "The loudest alphabet book on Earth."
Like most books of its kind, the outline follows a simple formula. In alphabetical order, a short blurb takes inspiration from the respective letter in order while applying the musical genre's them. For example, "O is for Ozzy who cleans up dog-doo. He rests on the Sabbath and other days too." The illustration depicts the former MTV reality show star clad in tatoos and slippers ironing, while surrounded by flying bats and a dog who, well, has clearly left a deposit near Ozzy's feet." It's cute, I swear.
After a hundred reads or so, THE WIFE and I have taken a few liberties and added our own spins to various entries. The kids have incorporated our creative additions and included them in their own unique ways. Mostly, the humor is lost on them. And the subjects of each entry are totally lost on them.
So, this morning as we proceeded through our ritual of breaking fasts, I decided to provide a little video perspective to help better explain the musical innuendo. The results were amazingly entertaining. The following is a loose transcript of the experiment.
"Q is for Queen, who were fruity as mango. Scaramouche, scaramouche, can you do the fandango." The accompanying illustration shows the band in their classic silhouette diamond pose from the Bohemian Rhapsody video but with different fruit on their heads. And naturally, THE WIFE and I rarely resist singing the next few words in the song.
Me: There's Freddie Mercury. He's one of the best singers ever.
Tilly: (confused) Are they boys? Or are they girls?
Me: They're boys.
Greta: Why do they have hair like girls then?
Me: Well, that was kind of the style back then.
Tilly: (not giving up) Are they girls?
Me: They're boys, Tilly. You see-
Gus: STOP IT! READ THE NEXT PAGE, DADDY!
"W is for Windmill, that Pete likes to do. But just who is Pete? Who-who, who-who?" Pete stands in his text book pose windmilling next to the blurb. There is also "D is for Drums..." and Keith Moon is drumming wildly for the adjacent image but the percussion - inexplicably - is not exploding.
Me: Check out this clip of Pete doing the windmill and rocking out.
Greta: Why is he smashing the guitar?
Tilly: That's so silly, Daddy.
Me: I know Tills. That's why he's so cool.
Tilly: I want to smash a guitar! Can I smash a guitar?
Gus: STOP IT! READ THE NEXT PAGE, DADDY!
"K is for Kiss, with make-up that runs. Gene is the one with the longest of tongues."
WIFE: Look guys, this band always performed with the crazy make-up on their faces.
Greta: Are they boys? Or are they girls?
Tilly: Make-up is silly. Why do you wear spicy lip stick Daddy?
Me: It's chap stick, Tills. Burt's bees.
Tilly: Yeah, but it's spicy.
Gus: STOP IT! READ THE NEXT PAGE, DADDY!
"E is for Everyone stuck up the back. This next song's for you ... it's called 'Back in Black.'" Dunh. Duh-nun-nuhn. Duh-nun-nuhn.
Cue the questions about Angus in a school boy outfit and Gus ordering us forward to the next page. Tomorrow morning, we'll be back for more ABCs from AC/DC and friends over eggs and bacon. Hopefully, the volume will stay below 11.
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